experience

a changing landscape

I have had the privilege to attend over 300+ births as a doula – every one of them unique. I have supported women who chose to stay unmedicated and those who were glad to have the drugs; who awaited spontaneous labour (up to 44+ weeks), and those who opted for an induction or caesarean.

In addition to those birthing at home (with or without the attendance of midwives) I also have experience supporting families in the following maternity units: Barkantine, Barnet, Chelsea & Westminster, Edgware, Homerton, Lewisham, North Middlesex, Northwick Park, Queen Charlotte’s, Royal Free, Royal London, St Mary’s, St Thomas’, UCH, West Middlesex, Whittington; and of course the list wouldn’t be complete without the mentioning of a car park!

I have spoken with some of the world’s leading experts on the childbearing year, observed many different cultures and traditions, and found myself on a variety of courses. Yet despite my insatiable curiosity and continued effort to develop my understanding, I find that I am still very much a be-er rather than a do-er.

Sadly the landscape of the birthing world has shifted drastically over recent years and it is becoming increasingly difficult to plan for a spontaneous, fully physiological birth. This is especially true for first time mums. This difficulty is not because women are now suddenly: too old, too fat, too posh etc. but because of a huge rise in unnecessary intervention, birthing environments which are not conducive to labour, a total lack of patience, not accepting variations of normal and a loss of traditional midwifery skill and ancient wisdom.

Yet despite this change I am blessed to work with families who choose to keep their autonomy. Who make informed, personalised decisions even if that means going outside of guidelines. Enabling me to continue witnessing normal, safe births without iatrogenic harm. This is my passion. Rebels are welcome here!